20 ways to say I love you – Lover/Spouse
1. Always embracing him and never letting too much time go by without reaching out
2. Every time he compliments you seemed moved by his words. (i.e blush, smile, or kiss him)
3. Always be concerned with his deepest thoughts. – “Baby, what are you thinking about?”
4. Hug him from behind at the most unexpected times(i.e when he is brushing his teeth, cleaning, shaving, cooking, working)
Allow your silly/playful side to show. Give him a reason to chase you around the house. Play hide and seek(him always the seeker)
5. Surprise him with trips to special places- i.e vacation, sports games
6. Leave sexy notes around the house – “I left an item from Victoria 7. Secret somewhere in the house. If you can find it, I’ll put it on”
8. Leave notes in his lunch bag or briefcase – make sure these are motivational and inspiring. These should let him know you believe in him.
9. Always motivate him – always speak life into your man (You can do it baby! Go get him! Of course you’re the man!)
10. Compliment, Compliment, Compliment – “I love it when you wear that outfit””You’re so handsome”
11. Do not argue if you can prevent it. You should find creative ways to get your points across. Arguments are anti-love for men. Never make him feel bad about his actions. You should just do to him what he does to you. Example: If he comes home late, express your concern in a tactful way. If he does it again, you do it to him. He’ll get the point on his own.
12. Say I want to be with you, without saying “I want to be with you”- “”We make a great team.”, “You always know how to make me smile.”, “Smile if you want to have sex with me.”
13. Ask his opinion on things – “Hey baby, what do you think about this poem I just wrote?” “What color would you like to see on my nails?”
14. Listen to him – What does he need? Respond to his needs. If he says something in casual conversation, capitalize on that. “I want to get new Nike flops.” Buy him new Nike Flops.
15. Let him lead – or at least let him believe he’s leading. Be in agreement all the time. If you do not want to do what he wants, find a way to get out of it without saying “I don’t want to!”
16. Do an activity he loves regularly(workout, watch sports, count money, build model airplanes).
Be Grateful! “Aww baby, Thank you! I always wanted that pen. (it doesn’t matter what it is or what he does.)
17. Say “I trust you” – As often as you can without going overboard. 18. You should also show this by relinquishing control of certain areas – decisions on dinner, money, and/or travel plans.
19. When he is watching his favorite sports make wings, or order a pizza. Don’t say a word, just walk in the room drop off the food and leave.
20. Help him build his empire. If he needs your help managing books, do it. If he needs you to make copies, do it. He may not ask you to but do it anyway. Make his life easier.
